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Domini
Newbie
Posts: 2
Registered: 04-11-2006 Location: Newark
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posted on 04-11-2006 at 09:37 |
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Help with a BIG problem
I am 16 and I have been with this special person for half a year now and we have been fooling around before, but only a few times have we gotten to that point but unlike most guys that I have been with...he is big in that area of course he is very proud of it. Unfortunatly for me being a virgin and all, I am very scared to do it with him because of his size (he is 8.5 inches) reason why we havent had sex is because of that. I love him but I just need some advice on how to do this in a less painful way, I am ready but I would appreciate it if I atleast do this prepared  Thank you 
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GradBoy
Senior Member
Posts: 124
Registered: 02-22-2006 Location: Va
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posted on 04-11-2006 at 10:08 |
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have it after
Domini,
Since you are a virgin why don't you have sex right after you marry him? This forum is all about it. I really do advice you to let him have you once he marries you. As for the BIG problem, don't worry about it, a natural arousal will make it wide to have any size in.
But again, the main issue is to assure and get married first.
Cheers
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Domini
Newbie
Posts: 2
Registered: 04-11-2006 Location: Newark
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posted on 04-11-2006 at 10:34 |
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Truly Appreciate it
I really appreciate your opinion to this matter and yes this forum is to help virgins like me wait a little while but you see I have been raised in i family that does not believe in marrige and hence I too do not believe in the constitution of marrige. I understand you but its difficult to wait if marrige is never going to be a plan in my life
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Jayce
Junior Member
Posts: 15
Registered: 08-22-2006 Location: Oregon
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posted on 08-22-2006 at 16:38 |
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hey
The thing is that the length doesn't even matter as long as the guy is intelligent and cares about you. He only has to use as much as is comfortable to you. If it is the girth, then that is a different thing. I would just make sure that the guy has good intentions before you decide to do it first. Just understand that because he has acted one way for six months, doesn't mean anything. Guys will do anything for a trophy. Be careful.
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AyaSan
Member
Posts: 27
Registered: 08-25-2006 Location:
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posted on 08-26-2006 at 20:30 |
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real advice
well, i totally agree on sex after marriage but i must try to educate and help people who ask. i can tell that you still didn't really get the response you need. so here you go.
first thing is, DONT WORRY! since you're a virgin, anyone's first time would hurt a little. a woman's virgina is like another muscle, it can stretch and contrast. as long as you keep your area well lubricated either with lobe or with your own "juice" it shouldn't be too bad. and don't worry! many women out there would wish to have this BIG problem like yours. and of course, you should mention to your bf about this concern of yours so he will try to slow it down and take it easier on you. if you have any other questions don't be shy to ask. good luck to you.
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