GradBoy
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posted on 03-04-2006 at 22:58 |
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New Topics
Yes, I definitely want to talk/share/learn things on many different subjects. Liz, 22, dreamangel and all other active, let's get interesting discussions started. I'm aware that this forum is on sexuality, but could we possible talk something else? I really wonder so many things..
By the way, if I hurt any of your feelings and thereby was offensive, I'm very sorry about it. Let's forget old topics and start the new ones.
Tnx
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GradBoy
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posted on 03-04-2006 at 23:15 |
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sail
Did you read this poem before?
The Sail
The sail so white appears alone,
In hazy blueness of the sea!..
What in his country has he thrown?
And what, so distant, does he seek?..
Waves play and dance, the wind is crabby,
The mast, so tired, creaks and sways...
No! Neither wants he to be happy,
Nor from good luck runs he away!
A sky-blue stream flows him under,
And over – golden beam there is...
To find a storm, he, restless, wanders,
As if in storms one can find peace!
For the original:
http://img138.imageshack.us/img138/7370/sail6sj.jpg
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The_Scribe
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posted on 03-05-2006 at 19:45 |
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I posted about changing the forums a while ago so their would be a general discussion forum.
But the mod/administator hasn't fixed this yet.
Also they haven't fixed the other problems with this site.
Why can't you edit your user information?
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GradBoy
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posted on 03-05-2006 at 20:53 |
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hi
Thanks The_Scribe
At least there is someone who finds the same problem here :)
Hey how are you?
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The_Scribe
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posted on 03-05-2006 at 21:03 |
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HI,
Yes, I see problems.
But will they be fixed?
I hope so, and soon.
I'm not too bad, how are you?
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GradBoy
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posted on 03-05-2006 at 21:11 |
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I'm so tired, it's been 5 hours I was making a research.. I just gotta have a nap.
I don't know if they will change the forum. I guess this forum is almost dead. I see only 1 or 2 being active, and that's all.
Th Scribe,
Is there anyway you can learn that a girl is a virgin. I mean once you introduced, then is it possible to ask such thing? will they freak or somethinG?
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The_Scribe
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posted on 03-05-2006 at 21:22 |
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Well, this board has been up for about 3 years that I know of. I've seen posts dating back to 2004, so it should be improved and a little linking to other sites on the net might help it grow.
Can you tell if a girls a virgin?
Hmmm
I've asked myself this before.
Before I even go out with someone I ask two questions.
First if they are a Christian or would attend the church (religion) I am, Independent Baptist. (Most can't even get passed this question.)
Then I ask if they believe in saving sex for marriage, and if they are a virgin.
So, basically if you're only wanting to marry a virgin you will have to ask.
I want a Christian wife that's waited for me also an intact virgin would be nice.
It's just shows you some proof.
I'm a complete virgin out of respect for my future wife. Also, for myself.
I just want the same respect back.
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GradBoy
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posted on 03-05-2006 at 21:43 |
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2.Q
Your first question is very simple to ask; but the second is something she would freak 
Can you ask something like this: "did you have any boy friend before, and how far you were close?"
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GradBoy
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posted on 03-05-2006 at 21:48 |
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1.Q
I think you shouldn't post your 1.question on religion. She is most probably a christian; how much she lives, that's something you will observe soon after.
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The_Scribe
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posted on 03-05-2006 at 21:50 |
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The first question seems to be an easy one, but most can't even get passed it, which is sad.
Well, that would be the same thing.
If you want a virgin girlfriend/wife you have to ask. If they are turned away by a simple question then you don't need then.
I tell them I'm a virgin, so they shouldn't have a problem with me asking them if they are.
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GradBoy
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posted on 03-05-2006 at 22:02 |
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easy way
The Scribe,
Why don't you ask your community to find/introduce an appropriate girl for you? Your father probably knows other cummunity of the same religion. That would be easy for you, wouldn't it?
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The_Scribe
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posted on 03-05-2006 at 22:12 |
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Ask my community?
I'll have to find my wife on my own.
Sad to say even Christians can't seem to follow their own religion.
If you look on most "christian" dating sites you will see women with children out of wedlock, etc.
I'll probably marry someone from another country, I've all but given up in this one.
I'm not trying to be mean to these women who have sinned.
But, I know what I want in a wife.
It's my choice to marry who I want.
I just can't marry someone who has been "touched" in that manner by someone else. It makes sick to even think about it.
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GradBoy
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posted on 03-05-2006 at 22:20 |
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the same
We share the same feelings/thoughts. It makes me sick, too.
What I ment by asking community to find someone appropriate is, that they know all around far better than you do, they have more contacts.. et. They will orginize and introduce you to a person with the same attitude and belief you have. Weather choosing that girl as your wife is still your decision. But chaces getting married with appropriate one will be automatically increased.
As for marriying from other country, it's rather tough. Totally different culture and a language could be a big negative.
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The_Scribe
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posted on 03-05-2006 at 22:29 |
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I guess you mean my church?
I'm not in a church right now.
I also ask questions that I'd rather ask someone I find myself.
I ask the first two questions then I'll ask if she has done anything else, like oral or handjobs.
(I'm blunt.)
As for women in other countries.
I don't care what their culture is.
I've found other women who are the same religion as I am in other countries, mainly the Philippines.
My former church did work in that country and a guy from that church married a Filipino woman.
So, I don't see a problem with that. ;)
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GradBoy
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posted on 03-05-2006 at 22:40 |
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wow
You are amazing.. you've got high criteria on religion.. you won't find much problem on virginity [abstaining from all kind of things] in asian countries.. that's for sure!
Before going abroad, why don't you check with clerks or priests/pastors of Babtist Church. To do things on your own, you visit all churches around [on sunday].. I hope you will find someone outhere waiting for you.
The Scribe,
Once you find her, let me know, I can come to your wedding (if you invite)
For now, I gotta have a nap before I fall apart.
Goodnight
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The_Scribe
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posted on 03-05-2006 at 22:55 |
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Well, I have a high criteria for a wife.
I wouldn't care what she asks I'll answer honestly.
I know some Asian countries are still pretty good on virginity and marriage.
But some are becoming much too westernized.
I've seen hymen repairing and hymens you can buy from vending machines.
It's a sad thing to start a marriage out on a lie.
I'd never lie to my wife, I just hope she won't lie to me.
I can't see how someone can say they love another person and bold face lie to them.
If anyone does that they will never know if the other person truly loves them. :(
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GradBoy
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posted on 03-06-2006 at 21:40 |
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Hi
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The_Scribe
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posted on 03-06-2006 at 22:23 |
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OK, I'll email you tomorrow.
I'm a bit tired right now.
Here's the link to what I was talking about.
http://www.zonaeuropa.com/20051012_1.htm
I don't believe the stories at the bottom were "planted" as the guy said.
Putting things like that with chemicals in them in an area that sensitive isn't a good idea.
Also, it would be nice if these women could just be honest with their partner then lying to him.
If she's looking for true love.
Because lying about ones virginity is not a great start to any relationship.
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GradBoy
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posted on 03-07-2006 at 05:09 |
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shoked
I'm totally shocked..
You are absolutely right, relationship upon lie is destined to die! Further, prior to marriage it's the worst thing a woman can do to his prospective husband.
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The_Scribe
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posted on 03-07-2006 at 19:46 |
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Well, I wish I could say I was shocked.
But, I'm not... at all.
There are even sites where people who are married can look for sex.
Which is pretty sad.
I'd never cheat on any woman I was with, especially my wife.
Without 100% honesty and trust any relationship is dead.
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sweettart
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posted on 03-15-2006 at 22:28 |
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35 year old virgin
I just wanted to say hello and say.This is a very good virgin board.
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