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Author: Lefuld Subject: How to break her hymen
Eric21
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posted on 06-09-2014 at 14:07 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
How to break her hymen

My girl friend is a virgin, and she wants to go all the way, but she is very afraid of the pain. Her friend said it hurt her an incredible amount. I want to make sure our first time together is not pain full for her. What is the best way to break her hymen. How to make this a great experience for her.
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posted on 06-24-2014 at 12:58 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
breacking her hymen

Anyway is going to be discomforting, be slow and gentle with her during penetration, and if necessary use a lubricant. Sex for a virgin female no matter what we say is not all it is cracked up to be. Sure it releases the hormones and all and the emotional part is awesome, but first penetration is not fun, it is uncomfortable as heck. I respect you for caring enough to ask how not to hurt her...sounds like you really care for her. Good luck.
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posted on 06-26-2014 at 20:04 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
first entrance into a virgin girl....

'My girl friend is a virgin, and she wants to go all the way, but she is very afraid of the pain. Her friend said it hurt her an incredible amount. I want to make sure our first time together is not pain full for her. What is the best way to break her hymen. How to make this a great experience for her.'

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Yes, you should understand it is painful for a woman during her first time.
The first time she surrenders that special part of her to a man, giving herself completely to him, allowing him, through his penis, to be the one to take her innocence.

I would suggest entering very slowly and ask her how she feels as you slowly move it in.

Before you enter, though, please engage in foreplay to get her vagina "ready" for your hard penis.
A woman's pussy needs to be wet so the man's penis will easily slide in.
If she's young, she should have no problem getting wet.
Older women will need lubrication.

To get her in the mood, kiss and suck her breasts and while kissing her, run your fingers down to her vagina. Rub her pussy with the palm of your hand and slip a digit into her virgin cunt.

But again, go slow. Make sure she's wet first and then move your finger into her virgin pussy.

Once she's wet enough, and after the panties drop, position your penis in front of her vagina.
Slowly, I repeat, slowly begin moving it in.

Once you get in a little bit, say an inch, pause.
Pause before your penis touches her innocent hymen.

Ask her how she feels.

Then slowly push a little deeper.
By this time, your forehead may touch her innocent hymen.

To be certain she wants this, ask her if she's ready.
If she answers affirmatively, slowly, again, very slowly, push your forehead against her hymen.

With one loving, but slow, push, your penis will pierce her hymen and forever end her Christian innocence.

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after breaking her hymen....

As your penis sinks deep into her, I know everything in you wants to push deeper and thrust harder, pushing in and out very fast, and fuck her like crazy, displaying your passion for her, but please try to keep it slow, but maybe a little more of a pace than earlier, now that you've broken her in.

Making sure she's comfortable is important.
Because she loves you, and as women are often submissive and wanting to please you, she may not say anything, if you thrust too hard or push in too deep, particularly if she's a religious girl. She may even feel some guilt, if she's a Christian.
To reassure her, kiss her and tell her you love her and think a lot of her.
If she's religious, tell her good Christian girls enjoy sex too and how sex is a natural part of life created for enjoyment and how you respect her and her faith.

If you're a virgin, it shouldn't take too long before you cum.
Most want to go longer and the woman will want you to enter and thrust a long time, but virgins or guys who don't have a lot of experience often cum quickly.
That's normal.
And in this case, good as she may not want to passionately make love that first night because it will be painful for her, the first time a man's penis enters her, so try to be understanding.
May be wise to withdraw after you cum in her ( or into the condom ) and hold each other close, caressing and telling each other how much you love them.

When you pull out of her, you will see blood on your rod. She may see it too.
After her hymen's broken, she will be ready on future dates to make love.

Once you break her hymen and sink deep into her, and after you've pushed in and out of her for a while, and her pussy is very wet and she's obviously enjoying the sensations you give her, you can thrust like crazy until you cum in her, but at first entrance, please go very slow.

Trust me, many guys when they're with a virgin just push it in, without any concern for the woman's feelings or comfort.
She will appreciate you being a gentleman and going slow, at least at the start.

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Oh. You really care for your girlfriend. But do not hurry. Use lubricants to ease the pain.
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