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RoyCropper
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Registered: 10-15-2008 Location:
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posted on 10-15-2008 at 13:24 |
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A Sensitive Male, Seeking Advice . . .
Hi my name's Roy, and I have major confidence issues with women, and this is leading me to believe I might never 'pop my banana,' and have sex.
I never used to have such an issue, but 2 years ago, i was diagnosed with a facial disfigurement, by only one specialist, called 'The Busi Pout.' It isn't a recognised condition, so there isn't a lot about it on the web. As I said, only one specialist would diagnose me.
Anyway, when I talk to women, I feel really selfconscious that they are looking at my bulbus orifice. I've started covering my mouth when talking, and have been gently crying, while masturbating on the evenings, in an attempt to feel better
Below is a pic, can anyone ensure me I don't belong in Akabusi's Big Top Circus.
I'm 22 by the way.
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davie
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posted on 10-15-2008 at 13:27 |
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bigblue88
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posted on 10-17-2008 at 13:37 |
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To Roy
hey there! I completely understand you feel about having self-confidence in social settings when you percieve that your face is disfigured. I have major acne scars that won't go away for a long time, so I understand.
To be completely honest, you are very good-looking. What you might consider a disfigurement is actually cute to me. You look like you are ready to kiss someone, which is adorable. Don't worry about not having sex. As you can read on this forum, there are lots of us who haven't had sex.
To improve your self-confidence think of all the good things about you. For starters, you have gorgeous eyes. Just keep thinking about those good things and it will be easier for you to have self-confidence.
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RedRocket
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posted on 01-17-2009 at 04:22 |
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You Do
You Do Belong in the circus. Go Hang Your Self God made you this way for a reason
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MasonBurkhalter
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posted on 08-20-2009 at 16:03 |
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First off...
Maybe you shouldn't make smoochy faces at random.....
I don't see anything wrong with your face. I mean I'm a man and you just look normal to me.
I used to be 300 pounds and fairly unattractive. I ended up working out constantly and I lost 100 pounds. I'm more confident in myself because I have dropped weight. The key is positive affirmations. It sounds silly but if you stand in front of a mirror and consistantly tell yourself you are good looking, women want you, your the man... etc. you will begin to believe it. You have to do it every day though and you need to be serious and genuine when telling yourself this. Like I said I know it sounds dumb but believe it or not that is a main psychological technique that therapists and doctors recommend all the time.
Women like confidence. Try to build your confidence and you will be ok. Don't hold women up on a pedistal either. Treat them with respect but don't think just because they have a vagina they are all high and mighty, this mistake will ruin your chances of losing your virginity.
One last thing....
Please don't ever say popping your banana again. Thats retarded.
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